A survey of parents of children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) reveals high-stress levels. A significant contributor to that stress is the meltdowns of autistic toddlers.
Autistic toddlers use their meltdowns to communicate. But this doesn’t make the breakdowns any easier to deal with.
Here’s more information to help you understand why autistic children meltdowns and some tips and strategies on managing autistic toddler meltdowns.
Plan Ahead
Parents and caregivers should observe patterns in the toddler’s behavior. It is to identify potential triggers for meltdowns and learn ways to address them proactively. It might include providing ample warning of:
- Schedule or Activity Changes
- Providing Calming Activities and Environment
- Providing Cues and Visual Supports
Parents and caregivers should also use distraction techniques and rewards during overload or distress.
By planning, autistic toddlers can be provided with the best support to help reduce or avoid meltdowns, leading to a more positive experience for everyone.
Redirect During a Meltdown
Redirection is when an adult or caregiver redirects the child’s current behavior toward a more appropriate or desired behavior. For example, if your toddler is doing a self-harming activity.
A redirect might offer an alternative activity that the child can do instead. Distractions can also be used, such as redirecting the attention away from the meltdown or situation that caused it to something else entirely.
It is essential to remain calm during a meltdown. It can quickly escalate and become worse.
Redirecting during a breakdown is one way to de-escalate the situation successfully. They move towards a more positive response.
Set Clear Limits and Expectations
Communicating expectations clearly and consistently is critical. It enforces boundaries to avoid frustration and works to create a positive atmosphere. Other ways to help deal with autistic meltdowns and routine changes include:
- Providing Regular, Consistent Routines
- Setting Realistic Expectations
- Recognizing Signs of Distress or Frustration
Practice communication with your child. Use visuals or other sensory tools to help explain the concept of limits. Utilize rewards and praise to recognize and reinforce positive behaviors.
Consult An ABA Therapist
The therapist can recommend strategies such as using visual cues. They provide distraction and utilize pre-emptive methods. They also implement systematic de-escalation.
The ABA therapist can recommend interventions. It is to address underlying issues that may be causing the meltdown.
They can also equip parents with techniques such as:
- Using Deep Pressure
- Soothe an Autistic Tantrum
- Emotional Regulation Skills
Learning how to recognize early warning signs of a meltdown. It provides a consistent and safe environment.
Find an ABA therapist and understand your individual child’s needs. It is an essential strategy for minimizing the frequency and intensity of meltdowns.
Learn To Deal With Autistic Toddler Meltdowns Today
Understanding the triggers of autism and introducing effective calming strategies includes proactively removing triggers in the environment. It reinforces positive behavior and models positive behavior. With this, caregivers can be better equipped to deal with autistic toddler meltdowns.
Remember to take care of yourself too. It’s ok to take a break and breathe.
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